Fashion readers, fashion followers and fashion leaders… I have decided to set myself a personal mission.. another “project” as such to combine my love for travelling and judgement, and write a book on whether chivalry is dead!

After being in and out of numerous relationships, and none of them working, there really is no better time to just put myself right in the centre of what most girls feel “alone” and just set myself the task of finding chivalrous men. To do this, of course, is quite challenging.

Firstly, the study would have to be cross-cultural – we simply can’t assume that there are any chivalrous men in the UK – as i’ve been to a lot of England, and I haven’t found any! So the book will be written from numerous international locations – in which I will spend a prolonged period of time in each, logging my experience of the male population and whether these ‘gentlemen’ are still actually ‘boys’.

Secondly, there is a generational – gap. It was once assumed that all men were chivalrous by pulling out your chair, taking you for surprise dinners.. OK basically being Christian Grey without the weird S&M stuff to go with it! But surely it can’t just be men from a different generation that are good to women? There wouldn’t be many marriages if this was the case… But I can’t help but think we are settling as women by not getting what we deserve! If I was ever lucky enough to find someone who treats me the same way my granddad treats my nanna I would be TOO lucky… yet she doesn’t feel this way, is that because everyone in her age-group is good to their women?

Thirdly, it’s going to be quite lonely. There’s nothing worse than being on your own searching for someone else to make you feel comfortable. The more people you talk to and time passes, it’s normal that we feel lonely… But this will be a positive feeling for me – I am so used to being with my friends or in relationships, that I’m not entirely sure WHO I am and WHAT I bring to the table…

I will set up an external blog and make sure to keep you beautiful readers in the loop. It’s going to be an interesting ride and hopefully an even more fascinating read! So stay tuned, and I’ll let you know exactly where you need to be to find your ‘Mr Big’.

My Not So Fair Lady

xox